I don’t know about other places, but here whether you are interested or not, you get to hear strange tales about love & marriage.
Lately I heard about 2 cases in which the females left the guys just before their engagement. One of them is too materialistic & the other one I think is slightly cracked, besides being extremely rude. I also have guy friends who have been wronged by their sweethearts. In some cases, you just can’t help, but taking the side of guys. But this doesn’t mean all guys are very nice. I think the ones who are nice usually end up with bitches. Whatever the case is, it hurts when someone plays with your heart & then conveniently discards it.
There are lots of things that one can’t comprehend & many a time, I’ve never been able to understand the views of people on marriage. And what I find a little funny is the suggestion given to me by my friends. They think that if you have family problems, then marriage is the only solution. I was 19 when my best friend for the 1st time gave me this piece of advice. I just can’t agree with it even today. There is something just not right about it. Even the idea seems as if you are taking advantage of someone. And the scary part is: what if things don’t work out? And yes I have always been scared of marriage owing to a variety of reasons.
Mine was a one-sided love; naturally I don’t know how one treats his/her loved one so badly. And I also don’t like such mean people. You’re going out for years & when you’re about to tie the knot, you just wake up & realize that the guy doesn’t have so much money or he’s immature & then there’s no mental compatibility or there is something wrong with his sexual capacity. I know this guy whose life is totally shattered, thanks to his ex-girl friend who deserted him a week before the wedding. She ran away with another man.
Well what I have seen is that love is something that is being trampled almost every day. Once I read & I think I did share it with you all that only time is capable of understanding how great love is. I often wonder if it holds true for everyone. Some people just use & discard others; they don’t give a shit. And this goes for both men & women.
Breaking someone’s heart is the easiest of all things. People also derive pleasure out of it by telling it to everyone. Just tell me what can a mortal do if he/she falls for someone? Isn’t it something that just happens & you don’t have control over it! I personally know people who are suffering from mental illness. They have been in love & this is what they get in return. One of my friends was raped by the guy she loved. As I mentioned earlier on that mine was one-sided love, so I really don’t blame him. I was a fool, but even I had to pay the price.
There are also people who genuinely love another person & yet they say nothing at all. This fear of rejection is so much that they keep it to themselves. I was listening to this song the other day: Mil kay bhi hum na milay tum say na janay kyun. This feeling must be pure torture. It seems love is some sort of cancer; eventually it kills, cause the cure ain’t good enough.
