This is what I read in the morning…I will give my views once you go through this text. And have fun, if it’s possible!
From relieving boredom, to keeping the peace or curing a headache, women have sex for many reasons but romance and passion come rather low on the list, a new book has revealed.
One woman even admitted to having sex just so her husband would put the rubbish out.
"Research has shown most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all," Why Women Have Sex authors Cindy Meston and David Buss said.
One said she did it for a spiritual experience, proclaiming: "It's the closest thing to God."
But mostly the explanations were far more mundane, with 84 per cent admitting to having sex just to ensure a quiet life or to bargain for household chores. One woman said: "I have sex to relieve the boredom because it's easier than fighting. Plus it gives me something to do."
While it may not come as welcome news, some women have sex out of sympathy, with one admitting: "I slept with a couple of guys because I felt sorry for them."
But many have more selfish motives, with financial or material rewards a major factor.
In one survey of students, nearly one in 10 women admitted to "having sex for presents". Others said: "He bought me a nice dinner", "he spent a lot of money on me early on", "he showed me he had an extravagant lifestyle".
And rather than love or romance, for many women sex is just about fun.
Six in 10 university students said they slept with a male friend who was not their boyfriend.
"Life is too damn short to be waiting four years to have sex again," one said.
Source:
http://www.news.com.au/story/0,27574,26041735-36398,00.html
Now coming to my sacred & humble views, I’m actually quite amused to know this. And I truly & sincerely feel sorry for those who have sex to get rid of headaches. It seems that painkillers aren’t available anymore. Since you know sex is one of my favourite topics, so I’m going to dissect each & every statement. Love may be one of the things but sex is sex :P
Some have it to get close to God…I have read about such stuff. But if one says that he/she has sex just to get close to God, I would say that’s a lie. Where’s the fun part? And aren’t there other means to get close to God…you can work for so many causes.
Boredom is something that you usually experience when you have nothing to do or you don’t know how to entertain yourself. I’m not saying it’s the one definition & it’s the entire truth. It’s my view. Anyhow, I just don’t think it’s sexy to have sex with someone out of boredom.
And I think it is total crap: "I slept with a couple of guys because I felt sorry for them." What a pity! Seriously speaking, it’s such a yucky idea to make love with guys because you feel sorry for all of them. And it doesn’t even sound all that honest to me.
About the selfish ones, we have heard about such creatures. They are everywhere. What’s the point in dissecting them today?
And how can I spare this statement: “And rather than love or romance, for many women sex is just about fun.” ? If it’s fun, then what should we understand by all the reasons given by women.
It’s saddening to read such views. I don’t know what kind of research was this. It seems people were just lying or they were so bored that they think it’s better to have sex than to do nothing. Or maybe they just don’t know themselves.
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