Can love really be destructive? Can it cause an absolute blockage in your brain cells. And then all you're left with is some confused thought...If things would have been different, it would be so much better. If only this wouldn't have happened, life would have been just the way it was planned.
I do believe in love and that it does exist, if not largely but in some capacity somewhere. Genuine love is rare though but I am sure it still is out there. Otherwise, this world would be so doomed a long time ago. The only reason why things are going on is because evil has not conquered it all completely.
Anyway, so can love be so deadly? Honestly speaking, I know many people who were madly in love and it all seemed perfect but they had a terribe end to everything. Then there were a few who even settled down and now it all looks so vain. Some realize it and some aren't even aware of the situation. That's how they are just passing each day without facing the truth.
What is worse is when I see some people who were so crazily in love (or as they claimed) before they got married, are so dishonest with each other now. Like I know a few guys who just sleep around for pleasure with other females and their wives are aware of it but they are cool about it because they feel at the end of the day, the man will come back home. And things are just fine.
I do understand that some relationships don't work out and the love ultimately fades away and then people move on...but when I see people proving to everyone that there is so much love when actually it's just an act, it just doesn't seem worth it. It destroys the very meaning of love and relationships.
A couple of us friends were having a discussion some days ago when we met after a long time on how love actually ruined this very smart guy's life. The guy was quite intelligent and was doing great in his career but just because he fell for the wrong woman at the wrong time, he was no longer the same man. And, now he can't leave her and she in turn is just making his life miserable. Such a stuck up situation.
Lastly, I was quite sad to see how one of my dear friends also fell for someone who is just treating him like a dog. Although I couldn't believe how he, of all the people could take all the crap. But, actually he is, and he is nothing less than a slave! And I am sure pretty soon he will be hooked for life and this slavery forever! And I would have to get nice clothes for his wedding to celebrate his slavery.
So, I am not really sure where that genuine love or feelings have gone...but they are definitely lost. And I still feel it's out there and if one is lucky enough it would come his/her way. However, I don't want to see any more slavery in the name of love ... it just spoils the entire idea of being in love. But this is such wishful thinking.
