Strip Off But Keep Those Heels On

Cheating and stealing has become quite the norm now every where. Though, we are aware of it but often we hear or read about such respectable institutions or people getting so low that it leaves many questions in the mind like is it really necessary in the first place to cheat or steal? A few days ago I wrote about some teacher in Pakistan who bravely spent about a Rs100,000 on a stolen credit card without feeling ashamed for a second. Today, I'll write about an international incident.

This is news from London where a young woman wanted to tell the world about her steamy affair with Ralph Fiennes for two years. She told the press about their intimate affair, what he liked to do and how he liked to do it. Three newspapers - The Sunday Mirror, The Mail on Sunday and News of the World reported this story covering their version. 

Indeed, it was a cheap stunt played by Cornelia Crisan who took about 62000 pounds for sharing her story to The Sunday Mirror and The Mail on Sunday. But News of the World did some very low. They illegally hacked into the voice mail messages of Crisan's press agent, Nicola Phillips and stole the story. Therefore, there is a lawsuit going on against News of the World by Nicola Phillips.

Cornelia Crisan

This is not the first time that News of the World came under such a lawsuit. It is the newspaper has a record of going for sneaking and phone hacking methods to report stories. In 2007, Clive Goodman, the paper's former editor who was in charge of coverage of royal family was jailed because he illegally intercepted the messages of members of the royal family.

Crisan is a Romania singer to claimed that Ralph Fiennes cheated on his girlfriend and had an affair with her. The Sunday Mirror covered this story by giving a very spicy headline as per the details they got from Crisan "He Stripped Slowly and Then Said,'Keep Your Heels On'."  

The Mail on Sunday covered the story with focus on how Ralph Fiennes had used the same love making techniques with her that he had used with Julianne Moore in The End of Affair. 

Ralph Fiennes

While The News of the World chose to cover the story by cheating and hacking into records. This newspaper is now under fire due to repetitive techniques of cheating and stealing for stories. Brendan Motangue, a former freelance journalist who often sold stories to News of the World also reported that the paper hacked into his voice mail messages to get a sex scandal story of a celebrity chef and then after stealing the story they didn't have to pay them the 30,000 pounds that they had to pay them otherwise.

Well, so this is an example of how even internationally cheating and stealing by renowned papers are done. It seems people are lost in a rut and don't follow any principles just for the heck of having some juicy stories and not to pay for stories. Hacking is a common thing too. I think, it is absolutely ridiculous when hacking is conducted...some do it for information and some people are such psychotic perhaps. And yes, recently, we noticed how a local daily paper started stealing in fact copy pasting entire stories from other sources. The stealing is done in such an improper manner that they don't even edit the details that make the paper look so ridiculous now and have lost all credibility.

  

China Creating Marriage Database to Expose Cheaters

The government in China is creating a marriage database, which it hopes will be a useful tool to expose cheaters. As the wealth in the country has exploded, it has created a culture of secret mistresses and second wives, even though bigamy in China is illegal.

According to a recent report, Beijing and Shanghai will be among the first places to put a marriage database online this year. The plan is to have records for all of China online by 2015.

Can’t say if exposing cheaters will solve the problem? Those who cheat on their spouses will find a way to cheat no matter what. However, it’s good that China is taking this step. It would be so much better if they would do something kind for animals in their country as well.

Moreover, it’s just not in China, we all know there are women who accept their husbands & have no problem with cheating, cause they have this mentality that at the end of the day my husband will come back to me.

I think the best way to spite your unfaithful spouse/loved one is to have some fun with someone else for a while. You don’t have to have real fun or an affair…you can just pretend. This gives instant result. Or you can just leave the person but that is not very easy, particularly if you have kids & you are greedy. Speaking of which reminds me of women who keep an eye on their loose husbands & only get headaches & tensions. Just what’s the use if shit returns to you at the end of the day? Everything is tainted now. Love above everything else is the biggest joke of the century.

When I Lost Hope

How, when and why I lost hope…it all seems hazy to me now. Yeah, there was a time in my life when I thought I would never let go of hope. But things happen and they happen for a reason, be it good or bad. Or are things always good or bad? Isn’t there something in the middle? Isn’t there a shade of grey? Or is it always good against bad?

Oh how I look at hope now makes for a very interesting argument, if you can call it an argument! To me, hope is more like cancer…and it’s the kind of cancer that is incurable…it’s the one that kills eventually. Nevertheless, I think it’s a gone case when we choose our own murderer while dreaming.

Hope kills…Hope cheats…Hope lies…Hope robs…Hope makes you see dreams that aren’t true at all…Hope gives you that ray of light, which time ultimately snatches away from you. Yes, hope gives you a reason to smile, but only a witless fool can smile forever. Maybe I didn’t want to stay a fool all my life. We all make choices and I made this one.

What worries me a little is that today I’m all set against hope. It’s natural to think so when I wonder what else I’m going to lose tomorrow.

Nadira Rahman