Controversial series 'Joy Of Teen Sex'

A graphic Channel 4 show that teaches teenagers Kama Sutra positions has been branded as 'porn' by the UK's leading broadcasting watchdog. Controversial new series The Joy Of Teen Sex aims to offer advice to youngsters concerned about their sex lives. But the programme contains graphic scenes of lesbian sex as well as offering a 'guide to anal sex'.

I guess different people will have different views on it. The purpose of pornography is to arouse people & by watching this, teenagers will definitely get excited about experiencing stuff that parents may not like. In any case, they will try out things no matter what. I don’t know if it’s right or wrong but you can’t teach the art of love-making to kids at such a tender age. They may get excited, which is natural but that doesn’t mean they won’t ever get hurt.

Moreover, teenagers will get hold of porn stuff. I don’t think Channel 4 needs to educate them about healthy sex. They are capable of exploring sex on their own without any help. And right now I think the concept of Kama Sutra would be much above them. Can you actually give practical advice on sex to teenagers? Is it possible to teach stimulation of desire or to look for a steady lover or arousing a weakened sexual power? I think these things happen naturally. We don’t need to teach teenagers that they should answer the doorbell wearing bathrobe & once the door is closed, they should reveal what’s beneath. Anyone can do wonders with his/her hands…even when you ban your hands, you can still have fun.

There are millions of nonsexual ways to show someone you like them & the thing is if you really want to be loved, then you must honour your man or woman. How come no one ever educate this?

Oh by the way grey is the least erotic colour.

Is Age really such a big issue?

I have been wondering if age is really such a big deal as people make it out to be. Or maybe people have turned it into a big monster just to make others feel bad. I believe we may not notice what’s missing in our lives, if people (including family, relatives & friends) don’t point it out.

2 days ago I was reading a short story in which a 54 year old woman elopes with another old man. She was a spinster & no one really cares whether she was happy or not, but when she elopes, her brother-in-law very conveniently says, ‘I think it’s positively improper for her to think of marriage.’

Many would even call her desperate. Almost everyone has the craving to be married or at least be in a proper relationship with someone. But I’ve noticed that not just in books, but also in real life when anyone who is much older (according to the worldly concept) marries someone, people have problem with it.

Isn’t it weird that after a particular age, you can’t do certain things! I think every human has desires. You can even think about sleeping with someone you don’t even know. I think it’s natural to get attracted; in fact, it could happen any time & this is nothing sick.

Some people are only concerned about the marriage of one gender. As if the other one doesn’t feel anything at all. And the biggest factor to decide everything is the age of a woman. These are man-made rules. There is no where written in any Holy book that after a certain age, you shouldn’t think about marriage or it’s improper. In many cases, parents do not bother to look for anyone. Is this the fault of a girl? I don’t think so. It’s just that she’s unlucky, but if she meets someone at a later age, everyone will go mad, even those who are not concerned.