



I was utterly shocked after reading that horror story last night. Seriously if this is intense form of love, then normal people cannot think of it. However, it’s pure selfishness & madness on the part of someone who is being rejected. In this particular case, 4 people killed a boy & I don’t have words to express my disgust. I often wonder what exactly motivates people to harm others in a variety of ways. In this case, the boy is dead. In some cases, people don’t die, they just suffer & there’s no end to it.
What I have observed is that people weigh everything before falling in love. I have also met some irritating ladies who just never get tired of talking about love & how badly they believe in it, but sooner or later, you realize they are such smelly humans that you just want to stay miles away from them. And God bless the idiots who are in love with them, cause they badly need it.
Cunning & scheming people get anyone they want, but nice people are mostly left all alone. A friend of mine was going out with this guy for 3 years; then one day, it dawned on the guy that there is no mental compatibility between the 2 of them & so he doesn’t want to continue this relationship anymore. After a month, he got married to one of the friends of my friend. Another friend of mine was raped by her bf when she was just a teenager & even today she hasn’t recovered.
Speaking of which also reminds me of another pal, she’s much younger than all of us, but even she went through a lot of shit. Her bf also got married but after 2 years, he came back just to say that if they had slept together, things might have been different. Someone once said to me there is not much difference between a slut & a virgin. Naturally the question arises: Is relationship all about fucking? Cause if that’s so, then the sexual capacity of the person plays a very crucial role.
Some of my guy friends have also suffered at the hand of women. Both men & women can be such bitches when it comes to breaking someone’s heart. And some people just go on playing games & usually such bastards also succeed even though they never have a fuck in them.
God is love, which means love ought to be one of the most beautiful feelings, but humans have besmeared everything. People just plunge into depression & it takes one hell of a long time to recover. The selfish person moves on, but the wounded one stays with scars all his/her life. In our society, we have people who just pressurize us to settle down. You can’t beg guys to fall for you or marry you. Love should be an honor rather than something given in sympathy. And it’s so not cool to run after someone even if he is interested in you.
I know someone who went to his gf’s place along with his friend, but when her mom came back, this girl was so excited, she asked them to jump from the window as she does this often. When they opened the window, there was no way to jump, thanks to the god-damn grill. Anyway, they had to meet the mom & according to them, the mother was equally mad. And while these guys were talking to the girl, she started jumping on her bed & one of the guys was so scared. One thing’s for sure. She was obsessed with the idea of jumping. Anyway, I’m narrating this idiotic incident just to tell you that this particular mad woman is now married.
Coming to Valentine’s Day, what I find quite irritating is the idea that it’s only the day for your loved ones. You can wish your parents, friends, grandparents, siblings, cousins, uncles, aunties, neighbors just about anyone you know…it’s not specially your beloved. Some people also argue why this particular day. See if you don’t want to celebrate it, you can always fuck it; there’s no hard & fast rule.
I just read this…it’s interesting, but it’s a lot of hard work. I really don’t think anyone is worth all this trouble. I also had to edit as it was too long but I’m sure you’ll get the picture. Anyhow, here it is & it’s good info:
Once you know what she wants, you then have the power to appeal to any woman and make her want you.
First Things First
Within three minutes of meeting her, a woman will evaluate you, judge you and stereotype you by your first impression. Despite this being an unreasonable way to judge a person, women do this to almost every man she meets.
Make those first crucial minutes work FOR you, not against you. What is communicated and observed during your first few minutes meeting a woman will dictate your future relationship with that woman: you may become friends, lovers, or possibly remain strangers.
We are all guilty of judging others based solely on their physical appearances, and our personal prejudices and shortcomings. As shallow as that may be, it’s true. You must use this judgment period to your advantage. This time is your most valuable opportunity to portray your most attractive qualities. The best way to make your first impression work for you is to adjust your physical appearance for greatest results.
Dress to Impress
By taking care of how you look, and by showing some style, you show women that you really care about your presentation - and women notice!
Look Your Best… Always!
You should always take the time to look your best whenever you go out. You never know when you may have the opportunity to meet a stunning, beautiful woman - the grocery store, public place, or coffee shop.
If you wear a well put-together outfit you will look sharp and portray more confidence.
So if you want to have more sex appeal, wear something that makes you feel sexy.
Women will respond to the image you project.
Refine Your Grooming Regime
Clean and neat counts! Find a grooming regime that works for you - and stay polished!
Get In Shape
Be Unique
Another important quality that women love in a man is individuality. Women love a man with a presence - someone unique.
Build Your Confidence
No matter where you are in your life, you should always know who you want to be.
Intrigue Her With Mystery
Another trait that many women find attractive is a little mystery in a man.
Don’t tell all right away - save something for later. You must hold back from telling a woman everything about yourself right away.
Challenge a woman to find out about you.
Intrigue the woman you are with and she will be more determined to find out all about you.
Show Her Respect
Give Her a Little Romance
Women always need reassurance. She needs to know she is needed and wanted.
Make Her Laugh
I have been wondering if age is really such a big deal as people make it out to be. Or maybe people have turned it into a big monster just to make others feel bad. I believe we may not notice what’s missing in our lives, if people (including family, relatives & friends) don’t point it out.
2 days ago I was reading a short story in which a 54 year old woman elopes with another old man. She was a spinster & no one really cares whether she was happy or not, but when she elopes, her brother-in-law very conveniently says, ‘I think it’s positively improper for her to think of marriage.’
Many would even call her desperate. Almost everyone has the craving to be married or at least be in a proper relationship with someone. But I’ve noticed that not just in books, but also in real life when anyone who is much older (according to the worldly concept) marries someone, people have problem with it.
Isn’t it weird that after a particular age, you can’t do certain things! I think every human has desires. You can even think about sleeping with someone you don’t even know. I think it’s natural to get attracted; in fact, it could happen any time & this is nothing sick.
Some people are only concerned about the marriage of one gender. As if the other one doesn’t feel anything at all. And the biggest factor to decide everything is the age of a woman. These are man-made rules. There is no where written in any Holy book that after a certain age, you shouldn’t think about marriage or it’s improper. In many cases, parents do not bother to look for anyone. Is this the fault of a girl? I don’t think so. It’s just that she’s unlucky, but if she meets someone at a later age, everyone will go mad, even those who are not concerned.